How to use the wrapper markings correctly
The markings printed on a US butter stick wrapper are calibrated for cold, undeformed butter. Each of the 8 sections represents exactly 1 tablespoon, or about 14.2 grams. To use them, keep the wrapper on, lay the stick on a cutting board, find the marking for your desired tablespoon count, and cut straight across. This method is more accurate than measuring softened butter by volume and faster than weighing, so it is the recommended technique whenever cold butter is appropriate for the recipe.
What to do when the wrapper is gone
If the wrapper is gone and your butter is cold, the most reliable backup method is weight: 1 tablespoon of butter = 14.2 grams. A kitchen scale set to grams gives you exact tablespoon equivalents without any measuring tools. If you do not have a scale, cut the stick into visual thirds, where each third is about 2 2/3 tablespoons, or quarters, where each quarter equals 2 tablespoons. That is not perfectly precise, but it is close enough for most everyday cooking.
How to avoid sticky tablespoon mistakes
For softened butter, lightly chill the spoon for a minute or coat it with a trace of neutral oil before packing the butter in. The goal is not to add oil to the recipe, but to help the spoon release cleanly so the full tablespoon reaches the bowl. Scrape the underside and rim of the measuring spoon after each scoop, especially when measuring several tablespoons in a row. If the recipe depends on creaming butter with sugar, measure while the butter is softened but still cool enough to hold a mound. If the butter has become shiny, greasy, or partly separated, it is too warm for volume measuring. Chill it briefly, stir it back together, and measure again.
When measuring several spoonfuls, count them out loud or mark each tablespoon on scrap paper. Losing count is surprisingly common once the butter starts sticking to the spoon, and a simple tally is faster than remeasuring the whole batch.